Photo 14: Triad Family

Photo 14: I took this photo of a triad family at the Half Moon Bay Pumpkin Festival. It is of two men and a woman and their two daughters. They were riding their bikes together and leaving the festival.

Sociological Perspective: How do alternative sexualities and family structures make it work in a society that is heteronormaitve and nuclear-based? What institutions support alternative family structures? How do triad families deal with issues like jealousy? Is it possible that a triad family is actually more stable than the "normal" nuclear two-person household? How do members of these people's families react to the idea of alternative family and sexuality structures and lifestyles?

Analysis: Easton and Hardy discuss the "ethical slut" in their book "The Ethical Slut." While we only read a few chapters, it is important to understand that alternative sexualities and family formations do work for some people. Easton and Hardy argue that that we have all been taught one way of relating: lifelong monogamous heterosexual marriage and that this is the only right way and if we don't get it right then we don't fit in. Easton and Hardy argue for a type of love and sexuality that is more open and honest and stresses communication. To deal with jealousy and feelings, you have to communicate them to your partner.